I wanted to add something to my post, after the fact…..things apparently got out of control. I made my initial post in response to a fellow mil-spouse, who I 100% support in her feelings…but apparently it got crazy and now Military Wives are going after each other. Why are we so divisive? If you agree, great. If you don’t agree, that’s great too. But in the midst of all this it has become about so much more than what it originally was. So I guess I feel like I want to clarify myself. I speak for me, and me alone. What originally had me so angry was the repeated emails to someone who didn’t want them. The emails to someone who shouldn’t have received emails, repeated emails! I do reviews, I’ve been pitched. I would expect respect and if I decline that should be it. I guess that was my problem with the situation. That’s what got me so mad! Its reality tv, it wouldn’t be there if there wasn’t an interest. Clearly someone is watching these things, otherwise they wouldn’t be around. Someone somewhere expressed an interest in this show, and more power to them if that’s what they want to do. I personally wouldn’t be involved, but that’s me. I feel like there’s a difference between doing your job and needlessly bothering people who clearly don’t want to be involved. Some people just need to learn tact. That was my original message and I just want to make sure that gets across. Its a free country, people can do whatever they want to do. That’s what our men are fighting for. There are so many ways to be divisive and I’ve seen them all, especially in the military world. From My branch is better than yours, to my husband deploys longer than yours….we are experiencing this so that means our experience is worse than yours. Its just sad and ridiculous. While some situations do deserve a certain amount of reverence and respect and far beyond my fairly normal military life, it looses its importance and respect when it is cheapened by “one-uping”. If I was being harassed by someone I would hope that someone would stand up for me.