My Kids Do Chores, and Yours Should Too!

School’s in full swing and we are fully embraced in our new schedule. So it’s the perfect time to evaluate the chore duties. We have three kids, and they are all their unique person. But let’s face it, when more often than not I’m here alone with them the easiest road is the one I often choose. But chores are important, and no matter what you’re doing them so we should all get to a place where we can accept that. Acceptance is key! In our home we also pay for chores. It’s one of those marriage compromises, that I ended up totally coming on board with and we have seen the payoff *no pun intended*. We don’t pay lot, but we pay enough for them to understand the value of money and get into the habit of saving. I use a great allowance app with a profile for each kid. They can also choose to put money in their piggy bank if they want. They also have a goal they are working towards and we encourage them to pick something special. You see the beauty of them making their own money is now they buy themselves anything they want. So outside of birthdays I now can say “save your money for it!” The second benefit is their desire to do extra chores and coming up with the idea on their own! It’s lovely!!

So what types of chores do they do?

-It should be noted that my kids are also required to participate in the our household like putting away folded laundry, clearing the table, keeping their rooms clean as best they can and other things that are part of keeping our home together-

The 11 yr old $2.50
 
  • Vacuuming
  • cat box duty
  • dusting
  • unloading dishes
  • vacuuming and mop kitchen and mud room
  • extra chores we ask
The 8 yr old 1.50
 
  • Bathroom (minus chemicals for shower and tub)
  • vacuum and mop bathroom
  • wipe down kitchen cabinets
  • dusting (splits with brother)
The 5 yr old .75
 
  • windows ( whatever he can reach)
  • bathroom trash
  • recycling
  • he loves extra chores, so he’ll ask regularly for them
 
You have to change your point of view
 
If you are a super type A person this will either drive you crazy or be a great learning experience….what I’m hoping is that its both. It’s okay to want perfection. I’m kind of that way about my living room. It’s my space, with no kids toys or anything like that. So there I get to be crazy and organized. But the dishwasher, maybe not the best place to go crazy. 1) they won’t learn how to do it and 2) they won’t want to do it with a happy heart. When are having company sometimes you’ll see be bust out the cleaning supplies for a grown-up once over. But its so important to us that they kids also recognize and take ownership over the space.  Kids can do way more than we think they can and we have seen the benefit in our household.
What kinds of chores are done at your house?
Got any questions?  



Rheanna
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2 Comments

  1. I fully agree! Kids should be taught responsibility from an earliest age, this is the best way to prepare them for the world outside. Nothing too difficult, of course, but there are plenty of household chores which are perfect for even small kids, like folding laundry, sweeping or organising some items. I also use the game method sometimes, if my daughter is feeling lazy.

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